HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE IN A CHILD

HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE IN A CHILD

 

Introduction

 

Helping a child to gain confidence is essential to his mental, emotional and social health. A child that is confident is more likely to succeed academically and socially. He will also be a much happier and better adjusted person in general.

 

Step One

Express your affection often to your child through your words and actions. Let him know you believe in him. Apologize if you are wrong and express your love.

 

Step Two

Compliment her and acknowledge her achievements. Positive feedback is helpful in helping her gain confidence in her abilities. Respect her choices and direct her if necessary without putting her down.

 

Step Three

Assure him that making mistakes is part of the learning process. The important thing is to learn from the experience and strive to be better.

 

Step Four

Accept her for who she is instead of trying to make her what you want her to be. Forcing your dreams and aspirations on her is unfair.

 

Step Five

Acknowledge his fears and insecurities and show empathy. Build on his strengths and avoid picking on weaknesses or faults. Avoid being sarcastic, especially when he makes a mistake.

 

Step Six

Take an interest in his hobbies, friends and the things that he has to share with you. Encourage her to learn new things or pick a hobby that she enjoys. Support him in his endeavors and do not complain or nag. Spend quality time with your child, whether it be talking or playing. Have fun and avoid lecturing during fun times.

 

Step Seven

Provide opportunities to help her develop or excel in a talent that she may have such as singing, playing the piano or a sport that she loves.

 

Step Eight

Watch what you say to your friends or neighbors about him as he may overhear them. Do not compare him with other kids or siblings. Let him know that you love and appreciate him for who he is.

 

Step Nine

Give him responsibilities to fulfill such as daily or weekly chores. Being responsible plays a big part in building confidence.

 

Step Ten

Help her to choose good friends who will help encourage and motivate her. Be happy and have an optimistic outlook about everything. She will emulate your behavior.

 

Tips & Warnings

Confidence is built one little step at a time, not inherited. Be patient. Make your home a place that his friends like to hang out. Be friendly and respectful to his friends and avoid criticizing them.