Gal 5 : 26

Let us not become concieted, competing against one another, envying one another.

 

                                                                                                Gal 5 : 26

Most often we inflict pain on others by maligning them through our negative criticism and arguments.  We need to use our tongues, eyes and ears to speak, see and hear good in others and also to praise them.  We need to start praising God for his presence then the rest will happen.