1 John 4:18

"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts
out fear, because fear involves punishment, and
the one who fears is not perfected in love."
1 John 4:18

The shape of perfect love is triangular:
love comes as a gift from God that enables
us to love each other and so return to
God the gift that is given to us.

Be God loving and not God fearing;